3 Strategies for Living a Life That Makes a Difference In 2017

The following is a guest post from John C. Neyland, President and Investment Advisor Representative at JCN Financial & Tax Planning Group. He is also the author of How to Live the Life You’ve Yet to Dream, a book that is part memoir and part blueprint for readers who want to get more out of life and leave a positive mark on the world.

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It’s common for people to think about putting their mark on the world and leaving it a better place than when they arrived.

Step Outside of Your Comfort Zone

But in many cases people fail to put those thoughts into action – possibly because they’re hesitant to step outside their comfort zones.

Too often we’re taught to be fearful and that hampers the actions we take and the decisions we make. We need to be taught to be courageous.

I know what it’s like to need help and not have it. But that has given me the impetus to want to help and make a difference in the lives of others – whether those others are family members or strangers.

And there’s no time like the present to begin, As people make their resolutions for the New Year, a good place to start for having a positive impact on family and others is to vow to:

  • Be the kind of spouse you would like to have. If I accomplish every goal I have in life but if I don’t treat my wife the way I should, then for me my life would have no purpose,” An unusual benchmark – eulogies – can be used to set the standard for how you treat your spouse. People usually speak with great respect of the deceased in eulogies, but why wait until then to show someone how much you honor them? Why not treat your loved ones as if you honor them every day?
  • Be the kind of parent you would have liked to have had. Think back on your childhood and consider what your parents did right and what they did wrong. You can learn from both. Everyone understands the value of loving parents who invest time in their children and set a good example. There have been times I haven’t measured up, but I truly give it my all.
  • Enable others to have a life they otherwise would not have had. Human nature often causes us to think about ourselves. But to live better lives, we also need to think about others. I have made it a mission to help underprivileged young people improve their lives. When you help that one person, good things can result. Imagine if the person you helped also is inspired to help someone else and that person helps someone else, and so on.

Final Thoughts

The value of our lives is measured by how we leave others in our wake, whether it’s our spouses, our children or the person down the street. Plan on helping someone, somewhere or somehow on a regular basis. If you do this and do it earnestly, you’ll be surprised at what it does for your own life.

Blogger-in-Chief here at RetirementSavvy and author of Sin City Greed, Cream City Hustle and RENDEZVOUS WITH RETIREMENT: A Guide to Getting Fiscally Fit.

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